Smile, Please.....

........"bukan karena hari ini indah lantas kita tersenyum, tapi karena kita tersenyum maka hari ini menjadi indah ". Itu kata Vicky.


Hmmm.... Benar juga deh.
Klo kita selalu cemberut dan termenung menyesali diri serta kehidupan yang sedang dijalani, kapan bisa senang dan berbahagia ?

So?
Keep smiling aja deh. Paling enggak.... kita ga bikin dunia tambah sumpek dengan membiarkan orang lain melihat wajah kita yang suntuk, eh hehehe.

Boy & Girl

Once A Boy And A Girl Decided To Write Down Whatever They Wanted To Change In Each Other.
(Pada suatu waktu, tersebutlah kisah, pasangan kekasih, pria dan wanita, memutuskan untuk menuangkan apa yang paling mereka harapkan akan berubah dari pasangan mereka tersebut ......)



Boy's Eyes Filled With Tears After Reading 7 Pages The Girl Has Written.
(Sang Pria meneteskan air mata setelah membaca 7 halaman yang telah ditulis oleh kekasihnya)

Girl's Eyes Were Filled After Reading One Line The Boy Has Written.
(Sang Wanita bercucuran air mata setelah membaca seuntai kalimat yang ditulis kekasihnya, dan, memang hanya seuntai kalimat itu saja yang ditulis oleh kekasihnya)

..."I Just Want To Change Your Surname To Mine"Respect The One Who Loves You,
Because It Is Hard To Live With Your Shadows .....
.......(Aku ingin mengubah nama keluargamu menjadi keluargaku, menghargai orang yang mengasihimu, karena... betapa berat menjadi bayanganmu).

Hmmm.....
Sungguh benar. Berat sekali jika hidup hanya untuk memenuhi harapan dan keinginan orang lain, menjadi apa yang dicita2 kan oleh oranglain, pasangan kita sendiri. Karena kita bakal menjadi bukan diri kita sendiri, hanya diperintah, disuruh, diminta.

Namun....
orang yang berani maju, tampil ke depan, bersedia untuk menjalani hidup, baik suka maupun duka, menerima apa adanya, inilah yang patut diperjuangkan. Mencintai apa adanya.....

Friendship day (via Suketshah)

"Thy friendship oft has made my heart to ache: do be my enemy for friendship's sake."
- William Blake, sent in by Lauren
"Tell me what company thou keepst, and I'll tell thee what thou art."
- Miguel de Cervantes (1547 - 1616) Spanish novelist.

"Have no friends not equal to yourself."
- Confucious (551 - 497 BC) Chinese philosopher.

"Fate chooses your relations, you choose your friends."
- Jacques Delille (1738 - 1813) French poet.

"A Friend may well be reckoned the masterpiece of Nature."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (1803 - 1882) US poet & essayist.

"Keep your friendships in repair."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson (as above)

"A friend is a person with whom I may be sincere. Before him I may think aloud."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"The only reward of virtue is virtue; the only way to have a friend is to be one."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"It is one of the blessings of old friends that you can afford to be stupid with them."
- Ralph Waldo Emerson

"Be slow to fall into friendship; but when thou art in, continue firm and constant."
- Socrates, Greek Philosopher

"Friendship is the only cement that will ever hold the world together"
- Woodrow Wilson

"Anybody can sympathise with the sufferings of a friend, but it requires a very fine nature to sympathise with a friend's success."
- Oscar Wilde

"Those friends thou hast, and their adoption tried,
Grapple them to thy soul with hoops of steel;
But do not dull thy palm with entertainment
Of each new-hatch'd, unfledg'd comrade."
- William Shakespeare

"Friendship with oneself is all-important because without it one cannot be friends with anyone else in the world."
- Eleanor Roosevelt

"If you judge people, you have no time to love them."
- Mother Teresa

"I will speak ill of no man, and speak all the good I know of everybody."
- Benjamin Franklin

"Misfortune shows those who are not really friends."
- Aristotle

"With every friend I love who has been taken into the brown bosom of the earth a part of me has been buried there; but their contribution to my being of happiness, strength and understanding remains to sustain me in an altered world."
- Helen Keller

"What is a friend? A single soul in two bodies."
- Aristotle

"The friendship that can cease has never been real."
- Saint Jerome

"I count myselt in nothing else so happy
As in a soul rememb'ring my good friends."
- William Shakespeare

Anakku Adi.

Adi anakku sayang....
Dia kini sudah kelas 2 SMA. Dan sedang duduk dalam sebuah kepanitiaan. Lomba Karya Ilmiah Remaja yang digawangi oleh Smansa Computer's Club. Dia menjadi wakil ketuanya.

Lomba diselenggarakan pada hari Selasa, tanggal 2 Agustus 2011. Terdiri dari Lomba Merancang Desain Blog, Matematika dan Logika, dan Cerdas Cermat. Dari target 130 peserta, terdaftar 103 orang yang ada.




Hmmm, lumayan sibuk dia kulihat, mengurus kegiatan tersebut. Dari persiapan banner lomba, Technical Meeting peserta, dan berbagai persiapan lainnya. Bapaknya kurang suka jika anaknya terlalu aktif untuk urusan lain selain belajar dan konsentrasi pada sekolah. Namun, bukankah, aku dahulu adalah aktivis sekolah? Ikut terlibat jadi pengurus OSIS waktu masih duduk di SMA Santo Yosep Malang, bahkan menjadi Ketua Umum Mahasiswa Hindu Dharma saat di bangku kuliah fakultas Psikologi Universitas Gadjah Mada, Yogya.

Aktif dan terlibat dalam sebuah kepanitiaan, kenapa mesti takut atau khawatir? Sejauh apa yang kita perjuangkan dan kita lakukan adalah hal yang positif, dan juga demi sebuah kebaikan, apalagi, kebahagiaan banyak orang. Kita bisa belajar dari pengalaman dan berbagai situasi yang kita hadapi secara langsung.

Belajar meredam emosi dan menyalurkannya secara tepat, karena kita bekerja bersama banyak orang dengan berbagai latar belakang kepribadian. Belajar bekerja sama untuk mencapai hasil yang telah ditetapkan bersama semenjak awal. Terjatuh dan bangun bersama teman-teman. Hmmm, semoga mereka bisa menggali sebanyak mungkin informasi dan wawasan pergaulan dari ini semua, dan menyaringnya, hingga hanya yang terbaik yang mereka dapatkan bagi masa depan mereka.

Apa yang bisa kulakukan bagi Adi anakku? Ah ha, mungkin, hanya perhatian kecil seperti, menyiapkan sarapan ringan baginya di pagi hari, menyiapkan bekal makan siang dalam sebuah kotak nasi, mengingatkan untuk tidak lupa membawa jaket penahan angin, dan juga jas hujan di bawal sadel motornya, selalu mengecek tugas2 sekolah.

Ah ha... mungkin mama gak akan selalu bisa berada di sampingmu, anakku. Mungkin mama bukanlah ibu yang baik bagimu. Mungkin mama ga akan selalu membantumu menyelesaikan tiap permasalahanmu. Hidup tidak selalu indah dan semudah yang kita impikan atau harapkan. Begitu banyak cobaan dan tantangan yang menanti di sepanjang jalan hidup. Namun, tetaplah selalu di jalan Hyang Widhi, jangan buang asa dalam jiwamu. Terjatuh berkali.... namun bangkinlah berkali dan berkali lagi.

Kangen Ibu

Aku mempunyai pasangan hidup...
Saat senang aku cari pasanganku
Saat sedih aku cari ibu
Saat sukses aku ceritakan pada pasanganku
Saat gagal aku ceritakan pada ibu
Saat bahagia aku peluk erat pasanganku
Saat sedih aku peluk erat ibuku
Saat liburan aku bawa pasanganku
Saat aku sibuk anak dianter ke rumah ibu
Saat sambut valentine slalu beri hadiah pada pasangan.
Saat sambut hari ibu aku cuma dapat ucapkan "Selamat Hari Ibu"
Selalu aku ingat pasanganku
Selalu ibu yg ingat aku
Setiap saat aku akan tlpon pasanganku
Kalau inget aku akan tlpon ibu
Selalu aku belikan hadiah untuk pasanganku
Entah kapan aku akan belikan hadiah untuk ibu
Renungkan:
"Kalau kau sudah habis belajar dan berkerja...
bolehkah kau kirim uang untuk ibu?
Ibu tdk mnta banyak... lima puluh sebulan pun cukuplah".
Berderai air mata jika kita mendengarnya........
Tapi kalau ibu sudah tiada..........
Ibu aku RINDU.......AKU RIIINDDUU... SANGAT RINDU....
Berapa bnyk yang sanggup menyuapkan ibunya....
berapa bnyk yang sanggup melap muntah ibunya.....
berapa bnyk yang sanggup mengganti lampin ibunya.....
berapa bnyk yang sanggup..... membersihkan najis ibunya.......
berapa bnyk yang sanggup....... membuang ulat dan membersihkan luka kudis ibunya....
berapa bnyk yang sanggup berhenti kerja untuk menjaga ibunya....

When a man needs loves......

A Poet.....

When a MAN looks at you with eyes full of questions ...
he is wondering how long you will be around.
When a Man answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ...
he is not at all fine.
When a Man stares at you
he is wondering why you are lying.
When a Man lays on your chest ..
he is wishing for you to be his forever.




When a Man wants to see you everyday...
he wants to be pampered.
When a Man says ' I love you ' ..
he means it.
When a Man says ' I miss you ' ....
no one in this world can miss you more than that.

Life only comes around once
make sure u spend it with the right person ....

Find a guy ..
who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who ..... kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world
when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you
of how much he cares about you
and how lucky he is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, ' That's her!!

'If you open this you have to repost it,
guy or girl, or you will have bad luck for the rest of your life!!!!!
If I don't get this back I guess your not my friend. If you have a lot of love for someone. copy and send this to your whole list. In 5 minutes your true love will call or message you..
Tonight at midnight your true love will realize they like you.
Something good will happen to you at approx.
1:42pm tomorrow, it could be anywhere.
So get ready for the biggest shock of your life.
If you break this chain,you will be cursed with relationship problems for the most important time of your life.
Every woman deep down wants a man like this..

Best Divorce Letter (via Suketshah)

Dear hubby,

I’m writing you this letter to tell you that I’m leaving you forever.. I’ve been a good woman to you for 7 years & I have nothing to show for it.

These last 2 weeks have been hell..

Your boss called to tell me that you quit your job today & that was the last straw. Last week, you came home & didn’t even notice I had a new haircut, had cooked your favorite meal & even wore a brand new pair of silk dress. You ate in 2 minutes, & went straight to sleep after watching all of your
games. You don’t tell me you love me anymore; you don’t want anything
that connects us as husband & wife. Either you are cheating on me or you
don’t love me anymore; whatever the case, I’m gone.

Your EX-Wife
P.S. Don’t try to find me. Your BROTHER & I are moving away to West Virginia together! Have a great life!
_

FOLLOWING IS THE RESPONSE FROM THE HUSBAND

Dear Ex-Wife
Nothing has made my day more than receiving your letter.

It’s true you & I have been married for 7 years, although a good woman is a far cry from what you’ve been. I watch my games so much because they drown out your constant whining & gripe Too bad that doesn’t work. I DID notice when you got a hair cut last week, but the 1st thing that came to mind was ‘You look just like a boy!’ Since my mother raised me not to say anything
if you can’t say something nice, I didn’t comment. And when you cooked my favorite meal, you must have gotten me confused with MY BROTHER, because I stopped eating pork 7 years ago.. About those new silk dress: I turned away from you because the $49.99 price tag was still on them, & I prayed it was a coincidence that my brother had just borrowed $50 from me that morning.

After all of this, I still loved you & felt we could work it out.. So when I hit the lotto for 10 million dollars, I quit my job & bought us 2 tickets to Jamaica. But when I got home you were gone. Everything happens for a reason, I guess.

I hope you have the fulfilling life you always wanted. My lawyer said that the letter you wrote ensures you won’t get a dime from me. So take care.

Signed,
Your Ex-Husband, Rich As Hell & Free!

P.S. I don’t know if I ever told you this, but my brother Carl was born as
Carla(woman) ……… .I hope that’s not a problem